My name is Pamela and I am here to teach you about that elusive superpower we all want to possess: CONFIDENCE!

* Who needs it most

* What it takes to build and nurture it

* Where it can take you in life

* When it can help you most

* Why we all need it so badly

* How to get it and hang onto it!

do you BELIEVE YOU CAN'T be confident?


Want to ditch your debilitating negativity for GOOD?

I can teach you how to STOP trash-talking yourself AND your life

Sick and TIRED of feeling unloved, lonely, unwanted?

I can show you how to START feeling MORE LOVE and JOY more often than not

Craving confidence and SELF-WORTH?


My focus for 2018 is JOY, in everything I do.

My priorities for 2018 most definitely include finding more and better ways to help you OVERCOME OBSTACLES and challenges with courage and CONFIDENCE.

I’m even starting a podcast (called Hard Candy :: Even Life's Toughest Moments Can Be Sweet) to help deliver that content to you. Watch for the podcast launch this spring!

This year and beyond, I hope you’ll join me in my quest for JOY.

I hope you’ll join me in getting super clear on WHAT WE WANT - and definitely don’t want - from life.

Join me in remembering how incredibly strong, resilient and COURAGEOUS we can be.

Join me in committing to practicing COMPASSION for ourselves and others.

In committing to practicing RADICAL SELF CARE.

Join me in promising to FOLLOW OUR HEARTS and our passions more often, more fully, every day.

Join me in practicing daily GRATITUDE for soso much that we are already so lucky enough to possess.

Join me in committing to always be LEARNing, always be GROWing, never allowing ourselves to get stuck and fossilize.

Join me in moving our lives forward in the most POSITIVE ways we can right now, with exactly what we’ve got right now.

Every. Damn. Day!

Let’s do this.

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 One of my most recent vision board creations

One of my most recent vision board creations

 Choreography for "Aquarius" by yours truly for  The Beat Goes On  (2015)

Choreography for "Aquarius" by yours truly for The Beat Goes On (2015)

where to find my clients:

NPR Radio * * Oprah Magazine * * Feinstein's/54 Below * Holistic Fashionista Magazine * * Esprit Arena Duesseldorf * * * * * The Boston Globe * Cape Cod Times * Cape Week * * * WOMR Radio * WXTK Radio * Cotuit Center for the Arts * Cape Cod Theatre Company * Cape Rep * Falmouth Theatre Guild * Eventide Theatre Company * Centerville Historical Museum * Wellfleet Preservation Hall * The Bitter End * more!

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